Anonymous asked: So I've been looking around and I've seen a lot of people saying that they always felt weird because they never understood people talking about who's hot all the time. I'm wondering if there other people that thought they were "normal" because they learned the standards that our society teaches us ="hot". I mean, I could generally tell "objectively". And if I didn't personally consider them hot? Well that must just be taste yes? So did anyone else not realize because society trained us that way?
Oh, my goodness! I should have mentioned this earlier!
I did this. Throughout middle school and high school, to fit in, I would find someone that fit my friends’ standards of hot and call them it, even though I did not feel that way towards them. I did not feel attracted to any of them, I would say it to feel like I belonged.
So, yes, society does play an impact in that, and please, do not think that if you’ve ever used the word hot to describe someone you just met that you aren’t demi. Nothing invalidates who YOU feel you are. A demisexual doesn’t feel attraction sexually until an emotional connection is made.
I do believe that some of us have said things about attraction, who we are attracted to, and who is “hot” that were not neccesarily true just to fit in or because society implied we should.
He’s just mad because he can’t acquire all the apple juice that I’m acquiring. (x)
or turn it into a fuCKing COMPETITION.
This mother fucking post. Thank you.
I thank and applaud thee immensely.
sweet dreams are made of bees
who am i to diss a bee
i travel the world and the seven bees
The question is not have I been hospitalized? How underweight am I? How much do I bleed?
It is simply: Am I happy? No? Then you are justified in getting help.
This is so so true
Anxiety is not rude. Depression is not selfish. Schizophrenia is not wrong. Eating disorders are not a choice. Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder is not crazy. Mental illness isn’t self-centred, anymore than cancer is self-centred. It’s a medical illness.
Hannah + dresses
i literally dont talk to anyone unless they talk to me first
First sign of spring in Canada — mini ice cream cones filled with maple toffee.
This is my weakness
this is everyone’s weakness
every time i see this i reblog it
so I’m not alone …..
"dark lipstick makes you look intimidating"
good. stay the hell away from me.